Life and etc. in it!

I'm not an eighty year old female to give life lessons and talk about experiences but young enough to learn and share what I've learnt. The more I'm growing the different shades of life and people are giving me a clear idea how to go about and deal with things coming my way. Not a single day goes that I don’t get to learn a thing at least, be it things I know and getting to know more or deciphering a sheer human quality and keeping in mind the same. 

Life sure is not a flat field to have a blissful night walk. It’s like climbing mountains in hot summer and not having enough water to quench your thirst when needed the most. So it depends on what kind of a runner you are. An easy going runner having faith to somehow make it till the end, or a runner who pushes others down to quench the thirst to reach the peak or the runner who waits back for the time to come when it will rain, or the one who gives up and jumps off the mountain, what kind are you?

Some are mere pessimists around and thinks nothing good will happen to them. They spend their entire life both shedding tears and regretting what they could have done or keeps on eyeing upon what others have got and they are not destined to get the same. Wrath and jealousy takes place and  is how created and takes different shapes  competing to reach the highest level of it; so much effort is taken to reach that level then, how about having a perception change and going the other way round? Those two things totally succumbs. How better it would have been being an optimist, ignoring world marathon and reaching the highest level to a better path instead? But the former seems to be the typical human nature we are bound with. To look around what others have got and we don’t.  This cynical human nature makes me think a lot. It is like not looking how beautiful you are but to look how less beautiful one should have been. It is like not moulding the best in you but not letting others mould their best too. And yes this is what I’ve been seeing around and it kills me inside. I try caring less but it gets on my nerves when it happens to me or I see it happening to others.

Life in itself is so beautiful, have wide opened eyes to look around and observe. If for someone money brings the happiness home then fight your breath out to get it. If it is happiness that lacks help others to get some back, cherish all that you have, all that you like or a passion for something that makes you happy and so much more. I can endlessly talk about finding beauty in everything around me. Even a crawling ant has the ability to make you smile. “Beauty is in the eye of the gazer” rightly said? Beat that line! Happiness can be found in the extremist niche if one has faith in self to find out. For some it might take ages to get what they always desired to and eventually might find it impossible to reach there and indubitably will stop deterring to the same. But that doesn’t mean the only reason you are left with is giving up. No! Yet again I’d say life is sure no easy, if no good deeds happened to you, how about making a journey living worthwhile and carrying along memories with it. Pain is mandatory, but suffering is optional. Right? Problems are like shadows, if you turn on the lights they are gone in seconds. :)

Well then, living your own life is more important, within a fraction of seconds life can take a turn unexpectedly, you never know. Or if it doesn't  beating up time and making it happen sounds more spontaneous. So let’s not life taste the J factor or other factors. Trust me no medical treatment available as of now for such syndromes. :)

Underestimate Me

The power of underestimation is not acknowledged that much. Or is it?

Well we have five fingers in a hand and do all them have the same functions? Certainly not. Everyone has their own characteristics; one is as strong as thumb, one as aggressive as the middle finger and not to underestimate the use of little finger that every kid uses the most.  Likewise one cannot expect the other to be what they want them to be.  So it is always well advised to be yourself (the saddest advice one could ever give? Well yeah! I'm not giving it here though). 

A narrow part from my personal experiences, there were always those people around me to pull me down at every point of time. There are few till date. To show what they are and what I am not. Believe me; they did no harm to me other than throwing some harsh words. All good that happened to me, ‘being underestimated’ was one of the biggest reasons that made me grow more. And every time I sit back and think I wish to throw back a silent smile. That is it. And so I don’t find a reason to compare and to be compared. Everyone is good at something or the other, everyone needs to discover themselves and be good at it. Need I say more? I'm not that preaching kind of a person, believe me. :p My posts are just to leave back a message for some to realise. People should find their own advices and grow along with it, right? (:

So why compare? Why show someone what they are not good at? Why not show what they are good at? Even if people fail to do that, nevermind, acknowledge the power of underestimation now on and yet again GROW.

There is this nuance in every human being which is undefined and cannot be compared. One definitely cannot expect traits to get matched. If things were meant to be that way imagine apathy surrounding us then.

So if you have that slot of someone around you or say if you are the one, Bother less and let it go!

Lastly “JUST DISCOVER YOURSELF AND LIVE”. (:

Behind every successful man there is a woman.

Well yes, there are some who will be there throughout her man’s journey in making him the man of her life. She will be the pillar throughout. With her powered words she will be the inspiration to his life. She will show the reason to live and give him light to move ahead. The obedient man will be as loyal as dog and behold her words strongly.

Some will be there truly and adhere to the same. But the exceptions are to be highlighted. A time might come when she will step back, why? Because she was a born ‘mercenary’ she found her ‘the man’ in someone else? Possibly! And what about the love and commitments made? Well they are meant to be broken. And eventually she will make the man realise that he was being a dog indeed all the while.

But every dog has its day, how come someone not know this?

When betrayal hits any person it hits hard leaving scars behind, the woman will have no clue what the man would do now. The scars will be the reasons to relive. Will he be what she wanted him to become? Yes! Infact, up higher above than that. The man will shine then.  And he then would only look back to make her realise that she was the bitch and will be fucked by a less successful dog.

Hence, behind this successful man too there will be a woman indeed. (:

P.S: The woman depicted here ought to be the significant other of a man’s life. On the other hand that woman could be a mother, a sister, a daughter or a friend too but that's not the purpose of this post.

A person who has sympathy  for a crippled, the same person can also call someone ugly. Hypocrisy much? -.-

Need no Title

Some rise by sin and some by virtue fall – Shakespeare, very rightly said, indeed I've seen things happening that way, not many orbits I've passed though, but have seen a lot. But one sure fact I believe is life in the making will surely be a ‘rise by virtue’ may be a slow one or very slow but it surely will, it’s not always dawn to dusk, right?.  All it requires are couple of sacrifices to be made.  Do it if asked for a life worth living ahead. 

- 1 Dec 2012