I'm not an
eighty year old female to give life lessons and talk about experiences but
young enough to learn and share what I've learnt. The
more I'm growing the different shades of life and people are giving
me a clear idea how to go about and deal with things coming my way. Not a
single day goes that I don’t get to learn a thing at least, be it things I know
and getting to know more or deciphering a sheer human quality and keeping in
mind the same.
Life sure is not
a flat field to have a blissful night walk. It’s like climbing mountains in hot
summer and not having enough water to quench your thirst when needed the most.
So it depends on what kind of a runner you are. An easy going runner having faith
to somehow make it till the end, or a runner who pushes others down to quench
the thirst to reach the peak or the runner who waits back for the time to come
when it will rain, or the one who gives up and jumps off the mountain, what
kind are you?
Some are mere pessimists around
and thinks nothing good will happen to them. They spend their entire life both
shedding tears and regretting what they could have done or keeps on eyeing upon
what others have got and they are not destined to get the same. Wrath and
jealousy takes place and is how created
and takes different shapes competing to
reach the highest level of it; so much effort is taken to reach that level then,
how about having a perception change and going the other way round? Those two
things totally succumbs. How better it would have been being an optimist,
ignoring world marathon and reaching the highest level to a better path instead?
But the former seems to be the typical human nature we are bound with. To look
around what others have got and we don’t.
This cynical human nature makes me think a lot. It is like not looking
how beautiful you are but to look how less beautiful one should have been. It
is like not moulding the best in you but not letting others mould their best
too. And yes this is what I’ve been seeing around and it kills me inside. I try
caring less but it gets on my nerves when it happens to me or I see it
happening to others.
Life in itself is so beautiful,
have wide opened eyes to look around and observe. If for someone money brings
the happiness home then fight your breath out to get it. If it is happiness
that lacks help others to get some back, cherish all that you have, all that
you like or a passion for something that makes you happy and so much more. I
can endlessly talk about finding beauty in everything around me. Even a crawling
ant has the ability to make you smile. “Beauty is in the eye of the gazer”
rightly said? Beat that line! Happiness can be found in the extremist niche if
one has faith in self to find out. For some it might take ages to get what they
always desired to and eventually might find it impossible to reach there and indubitably
will stop deterring to the same. But that doesn’t mean the only reason you are
left with is giving up. No! Yet again I’d say life is sure no easy, if no good deeds
happened to you, how about making a journey living worthwhile and carrying
along memories with it. Pain is mandatory, but suffering is optional. Right?
Problems are like shadows, if you turn on the lights they are gone in seconds.
:)
Well then, living your own life
is more important, within a fraction of seconds life can take a turn
unexpectedly, you never know. Or if it doesn't beating up time and making it
happen sounds more spontaneous. So let’s not life taste the J factor or other
factors. Trust me no medical treatment available as of now for such syndromes.
:)
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